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Fate or Destiny?

It's probably the most debated topics out  there. One always wonders whether he lives a life that is just his fate's way or is he living his destiny.
Now there is, quite a big difference between fate and destiny. Essentially they are opposite in meaning.Fate is something bad or rather negative in nature. On the other hand, Destiny is positive. Fate is what happens on its own. It's unpredictable and the course of its nature cannot be changed. It happens regardless of what you might think or do. Whereas destiny is what you make of life. Everyone can chose their destiny. It's all the result of their choices over a period of time.


I'm a staunch believer. I believe God is the reason for my existence and survival. So in between the fate and destiny, there's one big person that actually determines your life. And that is God. You might think it's karma when u start suffering.  But in fact all that wouldn't happen if God did not want it to happen in your life.
So before you start blaming other people for your bad life or take credit to yourself for your good life, or before you blame it on destiny and fate or even perhaps God. Just stop a moment. Give it a thought. Just because you play a blame game, doesn't mean that you can get over life. You have to start taking control of your life. Accept whatever has come your way. Believe that everything happens for a reason. Strive to find the reason. Pray more. There's nothing that God will allow to happen in your life that isn't a part of his perfect little plan for your life. If you believe that God is with you then you can live life with faith that there's something big awaiting. Or else you are just living a selfish life of destiny and karma.

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