It's probably the most debated topics out there. One always wonders whether he lives a life that is just his fate's way or is he living his destiny. Now there is, quite a big difference between fate and destiny. Essentially they are opposite in meaning. Fate is something bad or rather negative in nature. On the other hand, Destiny is positive . Fate is what happens on its own. It's unpredictable and the course of its nature cannot be changed. It happens regardless of what you might think or do. Whereas destiny is what you make of life. Everyone can chose their destiny . It's all the result of their choices over a period of time. I'm a staunch believer. I believe God is the reason for my existence and survival. So in between the fate and destiny, there's one big person that actually determines your life. And that is God. You might think it's karma when u start suffering. But in fact all that wouldn't happen if God did not want it to happen in yo...